"Cuoc song hien tai chinh la nhung hat giong tot de nhung bong hoa hanh phuc cua ngay mai tuoi no"
_Magret Lindsey_
Co mot thoi phuong chanm song cua gia dinh toi la: "Tha chet chu khong chiu nhuong bo". Va ban than toi da tung song cung nhac theo phuong cham do, it nhat la cho toi khi moi quan he dat duoc den muc than tinh. Con neu nhu moi quan he chua du than thiet, thi toi se chang bao gio chiu nhuong bo toi khi chung minh duoc la minh dung. Neu toi co lo lam nguoi khac ton thuong, neu toi co hoi nang loi lam nguoi khac kho chiu, tham chi toi tim cach lan at nguoi khac, thi cung chang thanh van de, mien la toi gianh duoc phan thang.
Roi co mot ngay co nguoi ban hoi toi rang "ban cu co gang chung minh la minh dung dª lam gi? Giua cai chung minh la minh dung va song hanh phuc thi cai nao quan trong hon?". Cau hoi do khien toi het suc buc minh. Toi tu nhu, minh se hanh phuc hon khi minh lam cho nguoi khac nhan thay rang toi van luon dung, con nguoi khac van qua sai lam khi nghj nhu vay.
Nhung dan dan, toi nghiem lai va nhan ra lau nay minh cu xu nhu vay that la sai trai. That chang khon ngoan chut nao khi cu co gang chung minh cho nguoi khac thay minh luon dung. Khi lam nhu vay, ban than minh se duoc gi? Minh co the dung, nhung ket qua la minh luon luon co doc, it ban, va co the mat tat ca. Tinh thuong, va it nhat nhung gi lam cho ban than cam thya hanh phuc cung chang con.
Luon muon chung minh la minh dung cung co nghia ban la nguoi hieu thang. Voi ban, nguoi khac nhat dinh phai thua. tuy nhien, khi ban da thang roi, dieu do cung chang chung minh ban vui ve, hanh phuc trong cuoc song. Chang lam thay doi cuoc song hien tai cua ban.Va neu xet o y nghia sau xa hon, viec luon chu y den cai dung se lam cho chung ta luon co nhu cau phai thang nguoi khac, phai phat hien cai sai cua nguoi khac. Luc nao chung ta cung thich tranh luan.Trong moi van de lon nho, chung ta deu thich tranh luan de gianh phan thang.
Giup nguoi khac nhan ra va sua loi la dieu khong de chut nao. Chung ta phai luon luon tu hoi dieu gi la quan trong gtruoc khi tim cach gop y phu hop. Can biet nhan lai lang nghe moi co the tim thay cau tra loi khien nguoi khac thoa man ma ban than minh cung hai long. Trong moi moi quan he cua con nguoi, de tao ra moi truong song tot dep, lanh manh va em am luon la dieu rat kho, con gay ra xung dot, mau thuan, ghen ghet, la dieu rat de...
Mot khi chung ta biet nhin nhan moi van de tuong tu trong cuoc song voi mot cai nhin nhu vay, chung ta se cam thay hanh phuc hon rat nhieu. Chung ta it khi phai buc boi vi su sai sot cua nguoi khac, chung ta cung khong lam cho nhung nguoi xung quanh xa lanh minh chi vi ho... ngai nghe nhung loi bat be, chi trich cua chung ta.
Nhung dieu tot dep ta cu xu voi nguoi khac trong ngay hom nay, se la hat giong de hoa no hanh phuc no ro ngay mai. Dung bao gio quen dieu do. Dung bao gio tu minh gieo nhung hat giong xau, kem pham chat de roi ngay mai phai tu gat hai nhung hau qua ko mong doi tu nhung dieu minh da lam.